Many hands, light work.
We often find ourselves discussing work loads and whether we are putting in our fair share of the effort. Bottom line there is no magical equation, no phone app that delegates duties or prevents us trying to shirk the odd dirty nappy.
Do I want to come home from work at 10.30pm and have to sleep in the twins room and do four hourly feeds, not particularly.
But both will definitely always fall within my share of the workload.
Its not forever.